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Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman’s Fire
By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
1. Touch
Women are very tactile beings. They love to be touched and
caressed. Hold her, massage her, tease and tantalize her
playfully with your fingers. Don’t go straight to the genitals,
pay attention to her whole body.
2. Kisses
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest turn ons for a
woman. Looking into her eyes or touching her face while kissing
her can increase the arousal of the kiss. Kissing other parts of the
body such as the neck, belly, inner thighs, buttocks, pelvis area
surrounding the vagina, fingers and maybe even the feet for some can
heighten her pleasure.
3. Emotional Connection
For women, sex is usually an emotional act as well as a physical
act. The deeper the emotional connection, the better the sex will
be for her and the deeper her desire for her lover will become.
Share your feelings with your woman and express how you feel about her
freely. For her, what goes on outside the bedroom is an important
factor of what will occur in the bedroom.
4. Foreplay & Aferplay
There is nothing that is a bigger turn off for a woman than a lover who
immediately begins penetration without tending to her body and
mind. Just as important as foreplay is the period of time
immediately following the sex, afterplay. Afterplay reinforces
how a woman feels about the sexual experience and will have a great
impact on how she responds to her lover in the future.
5. Make Her Feel Important,
Women also need to feel important to their lover. Take an active
interest in who she is as a person and what goes on in her life. Ignite
your woman’s passion by making her feel special, cherished and adored.
6. Value and Respect
For sex to be at its best, most women need to feel valued and respected
by their lover. Her desire and level of satisfaction will grow
deeper. She will want her lover more frequently and be more
motivated to meet his sexual needs as well.
7. Listen
Women are more attracted to a man who listens to her and actually hears
her. Being heard makes her feel important and valued, thereby
increasing her feelings of intimacy with her lover and encouraging her
to be free and uninhibited in her lovemaking. Her level of satisfaction
is enhanced and her desire for her lover increased.
8. Show Her Your Passion & Desire
A woman wants to be wanted passionately. She wants to see your
deep desire for her and feel how much you want her. Pursue her
passionately and she will be a wild cat full of desire.
9. Take Your Time
The path to orgasm is just as fulfilling as the orgasm itself and the
path is also important for enhancing her orgasmic experience. Take the
long meandering road, savoring, pampering and adoring every part of her
body along the way.
10. Be a Master of Oral
The majority of women cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse.
Taking pleasure in delighting your woman orally is by far one of the
most enjoyable ways for her to be satisfied.
About the author
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed., is a sex counselor/educator and author helping
monogamous couples increase sexual satisfaction, be better lovers and keep the passion alive. She is also author of the hot new sex guide for couples titled, "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord - A Couple's Menu for Feeding Passion & Fidelity." Subscribe to her FREE Monthly Ezine, Smoldering Embers Sex Tip of the Month and get hot sex tips, techniques and secrets guaranteed to keep your fire burning.
http://www.smolderingembers.com/smorgasbord.html or send any email to this address smolderingembers-subscribe@topica.com |
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